today was an emotional one. I do not want to talk about emotions again because I know that my last post was about emotions but I have to type it out a little bit and then maybe this post will be a little delayed but that is ok with me. Life is tough. Life is scary. We all have our own fears. What is interesting about fears is that they can not be seen. Fears are feelings. no one can experience and feel the same fear as you even if you have the same fear. it is kind of like injuries. When a person can not see your injury, it is hard for that person to understand what is hurting and what you are feeling inside that can not be seen. when this situation happens, all we can do is explain. Explain the best that we can and hope that the person who is listening to this fear of yours is understanding and empathetic.
what are your fears? can you explain them? do you know how they got there or are you born with them? do you mask your fears or do you look them in the eye and tackle them? You are strong. You are beautiful. Me, I mask my fears. I rationalize them and try to disguise them so that I can conquer them but in a secret way. Is that the best way to do it? probably not, but for now, I need to.
do others come to you about their fears? do they share with you what they are feeling and are you understanding even though you will never feel the same emotion about their fear? How do you help when that person is expressing their feeling of fear to you? what can we do?
love hug feel empathy emotional express agree listen and intertwine.
there is no answer to conquering your fears. There is a path and with that path there is time and it is time that will help you understand that your fear is something you should not worry about.
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